Set up an offer
Write the invitation, add your people, choose a deadline.
Two tickets. A reservation. A seat in your car. Ask one friend at a time, in the order you'd choose. Or ask everyone at once — first yes(es) take it. Either way: no public asking, no chasing, no one learns what they missed.
Sam invited you:
Fri Jun 14 · 7:30 PM
Wood-fired oven's on. BYO anything stronger than wine.
How it works
Write the invitation, add your people, choose a deadline.
One person at a time down your list, or to the whole group at once. Quietly — no group chat, no public post.
They're in. Anyone who didn't make it just sees nothing — no record of what they missed.
By design
Every Cascade invitation has a deadline. Once it passes — because you didn't act in time, or because someone else accepted first — the link stops working. There's no record left in your inbox of what was offered, who it was from, or when the thing was happening. Nobody ends up holding evidence of being late, or being second pick. It just isn't there anymore.
Mode 1 of 2
Some asks should feel personal. Cascade goes down your list in the order you'd actually choose — each person gets a private invitation, with a window to respond. Nobody knows they weren't first. Nobody waits in public.
From compose to complete. Every change explained — without you doing a thing.
Designed for moments like these
Ask in the order you'd ask in real life. Nobody knows where they stood. The friend you'd want most still gets first crack.
Ask one, give them a window, move on if they can't. You stay out of the group chat. They never know who was asked before — or after.
Private, ordered, quiet. No one sees the list. No one feels second. Each person gets a real invitation, not a recycled offer.
If they can't go, the next on your list gets a turn — without ever knowing they weren't your first thought.
Offer it to the friend you'd want to give it to. Then the next, if she can't take it. No public asking, no awkward chase.
Pass it down your list quietly. First yes inherits Sunday. No one knows you had to bail — or who got it.
Mode 2 of 2
Some offers shouldn't have a hierarchy. Burst sends to your whole list at the same moment. Fastest yes takes the spot. Everyone else gets a quiet pass — no group chat scramble, no visible no's, no awkward 'wait, who's coming?'
Send to your whole list. First in wins. Quiet pass for everyone else.
Designed for moments like these
Burst to everyone. The first four in fill the table. No public race, no visible no's, no awkward “wait, who's coming?”
Six friends might want them. Send to all six. First two yeses win — everyone else just hears nothing back.
No fair way to rank them — so don't. Burst it. Whoever commits first goes. Speed becomes the only hierarchy.
More than six friends would jump on it. Send to your whole list. Fastest in fills the bench.
Goes Saturday if the wind cooperates. Whoever commits by Friday gets a spot. The weather decides; nobody else has to.
Send to your five most-likely friends. First three to commit walk in with you. The last two never know they weren't in.